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📋 Summary

Adult Attachment & Flourishing Relationships 💑💕

PSY409 - Positive Psychology

1. Adult Attachment (Hazan & Shaver) 💑

  • Secure: Positive self + Positive others 💚💚
  • Anxious-Preoccupied: Negative self + Positive others 💛
  • Dismissive-Avoidant: Positive self + Negative others 🧊
  • Fearful-Avoidant: Negative self + Negative others 💔

2. Gottman's Research 📊💑

  • Magic Ratio: 5:1 positive to negative interactions 5️⃣😊:1️⃣😤
  • Four Horsemen (predict divorce 🐴💔):
  • • Criticism 😤
  • • Contempt 🙄
  • • Defensiveness 🛡️
  • • Stonewalling 🧱

3. Sternberg's Triangular Theory 🔺

  • 3 Components: Intimacy + Passion + Commitment
  • Consummate Love: All 3 together 💗🔥💍 = ❤️
  • Romantic: Intimacy + Passion 💗🔥
  • Companionate: Intimacy + Commitment 💗💍